Doubt is a very unpopular word in Christian circles. Most Christians would be afraid to admit any form of doubt they might have—due to feeling guilty for having thoughts of doubt or due to the judgment of others.
When doubt surfaces, some consider it a lack of faith or a lack of believing God and His Word…so as a result, many suffer and struggle silently. Through their silent struggle, they can become stagnant in their walk with God.
Some can even leave the church altogether.
I’ve seen it time and time again…someone will go through grief, or an extreme life challenge, and it throws them into unknown territory.
Their Christian friends don’t know what to do with them…their fellow church members aren’t sure how to best help them (in fact, they’re not incredibly sure what to do other than say the customary, yet well-intentioned, “I’m praying for you. Let me know if there’s anything I can do”…after quoting Romans 8:28 for good measure).
At that point, the hurting person becomes discouraged since no real help or genuine solution was offered. And the hurting person is in so much pain they now simply choose to withdraw.
Then the hard questions and doubt start pouring in.
Is God real? Where do I fit in? Does God care? Do others care? Why am I having to go through what I’m going through? Why did God allow______?
You may know someone this has happened to…or you might be the one who is battling doubt and unending questions today.
It is imperative to know how to handle our doubt(s) so we can prevent bitterness or discouragement, and overcome any and every obstacle that is keeping us from experiencing the rich relationship with God we are fully capable of having.
Truly think about the doubts you have today.
Be completely honest.
Do you feel like God didn’t protect you from a situation? Are you discouraged by how other people or Christians have treated you? Did someone deeply wound your heart and fail to make it right?
Are you doubting that God can heal your broken heart…save your marriage…help you financially…forgive you…fully accept you…heal your broken soul…work in the life of a rebellious spouse or child? Are you doubting that He can provide…or that He can work in any other situation that is tearing you apart inside or making you worry?
I have intensely worried and doubted God in some situations…and, sometimes, not even have known or realized it at the time.
There are many reasons we doubt.
Many doubt God cares. But did you know that God actually bends down from Heaven to hear our prayers, heartaches, concerns, and even our questions?
He’s so good! He doesn’t have to bend down to hear us, but out of His great love, He willingly chooses to.
Did you know that God has collected every tear you’ve ever cried and written every heartache you’ve ever experienced in a ledger?
God truly cares about each and every heartache and heartfelt question or request we have. He cares about each of us and every situation we face—past, present, and future.
He even knows how He plans to cause good to come out of the tough situations we face after we trust Him and lay our situation(s) at His feet. The good comes after we trust God and fully allow Him to work in us and through our doubts.
You may be thinking, “Fine, but I feel disconnected. I really don’t even feel like praying.”
If you feel stale in your relationship with God, doubt is most likely the culprit.
Do you wonder how God handles doubters? In scripture, God shows a loving example of mercy and compassion to the most famous doubter, Thomas.
Jesus didn’t judge Thomas, and He wasn’t harsh with him. In fact, the exact opposite happened. Jesus showed sheer love and understanding to Thomas.
Today, truly think about and label your doubt. Ask God to reveal any doubt(s) you hold in your heart. Be completely honest and transparent. The answer(s) revealed just might surprise you.
Choose today, like Thomas, to take your doubts to God…have the courage to have a bold, beautiful, breaking conversation with Him…and place your doubts in His hands. He already knows what is in your heart so be honest and transparent. Invite God to work in your heart and through your life challenges—pursue Him and His amazing heart with everything you have and don’t quit! The reward truly is a closer and much richer relationship with Him!
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Good post!!! I’m not sure a person is a very conscientious Christian if they don’t have doubts from time to time. We can never KNOW everything about God. Otherwise, God wouldn’t be God…
Very, very true. I love that He allows us to have a relationship with Him! It’d be an incredible experience to fully know Him!!
Hope you are having a blessed week!
I lost my son-in-law tragedically to a car accident just 8mnths after he married my daughter. I doubted if God trully loved me because I too lost her father after 12yrs of marraige and I was left to raise her and her 2sibblings alone. This journey made me think that I could have been purnished for something I might have done that is unforgivable. Seeing my daughter unhappy everyday it kills me inside. I wish money was not an issue,I would enroll her to a university so she could have a career to help herself. Sitting at home where she hardly meet people and takes away her mind from grief,it is not helping. She finds no reason to go to church because she feels she has been robbed. I can’t seem to get to help because I don’t have the right words of encouraging her. I thank God I’m healing after reading “grief bites” thank you.
I am so very sorry for the losses you and your daughter are going through!
God loves you and your daughter so much and will not let either of you go. He will never leave or forsake you.
I’m praying for you both right now!
If GriefShare is offered in your area, I wholeheartedly encourage you and your daughter to both attend. You will find others who have been through grief who can encourage your hearts and help you through this tough season in your life.
You can find meeting locations at http://www.griefshare.org
Praying you and your daughter find the encouragement and healing you need!
God bless you!